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It's usual to change your name at around the time you transition. I decided it
would be a good idea to do this when I started getting strange looks from bank
staff, after all, I don't much look like a Craig, and became sick of having to
explain myself. Also, wandering into a pharmacy to collect scripts for female
hormones is a little easier if you do it with a female name. Not that
pharmacies are often difficult, just that as I said before, you get a little
sick of having to explain yourself at every turn.
To change your name, all you have to do is wander along to your local Registrar
of Births, Deaths, and Marriages, and tell the person behind the counter that
you would like to change your name by deed poll. This is a simple document that
states your old name, your address, etc, and the name that you would like to be
known by. It has nothing to do with gender whatsoever. Once completed, the
deed poll has to be signed in the presence of either a commissioner of
declarations, or a justice of the peace. You'll have to fill in two copies,
one of which is kept on file (with a statutory declaration), and the other you
get to keep, after shelling out the required fee ($62 in the ACT).
The usual response when doing this (from the counter staff) is a great big grin.
Female staff, especially, think it's really cool. I can't say what reaction
you'll get, but remember that these people have doubtless seen it all before
(we've all changed our names) and are quite used to it.
Next, you have to march along to all the banks, credit unions, etc, to which you
belong, and inform them of your name change. Again, the response from most
people is positive. Many of them will want a copy of your deed poll to throw in
their files.
Just remember, it's a common occurrence for people to change their name, so
counter staff are quite used to it, and are able to follow standard procedures.
After all, how many people get married each year? The hard bit is changing your
sex, but banks etc are usually OK about that. If not, just close your accounts,
and open new ones with a passport (or drivers licence if you live in the right
state) for proof of ID.
You'll also have to inform motor registry (if you have a licence) and the
Electoral Commission that you've changed your name, as well as Medicare and
your doctors etc. After a while, you'll start to see your old name crop up less
often. When it does, just inform the troublesome party, and all should be
well. Personell records are often a really sticky one, but that comes under the
title 'transitioning', and as I had a disgracefully easy run of it, don't ask me
for advice.
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